My best friend and I are getting married. Coming out as gay wasn’t an easy endeavor. I don’t imagine it is for many people either which is why many end up staying closeted for decades. Being raised a Jehovah’s Witness, I understood at a very young age what an abomination the practice of homosexuality was in the eyes of God. So, while I remember very distinctly an incident when I was 12 years old that involved playing hanky panky with another girl (my cousin) for the most part, my attraction to girls was well buried where forbidden desires hid. Apart from that one incident, from grade school through college, it was all boys all the time. They liked me, they dated me, I dated…