I go in for my first ever surgery tomorrow and as I sit here just a few hours from it, I’m anxious, scared, grateful and above all else reflective. I moved to the USA 12 years ago this July. I was a 21-year-old kid with a passion for exploration and …

Growing up, I was an awkward kid. I was shy but very loud-mouthed. I wanted to be liked but I never conformed. I was nerdy and loved my own company but often wished for friends. My story began when we moved from Nigeria to Ghana at 10 years old. I remember very little of …

Anal sex, threesomes, sitting on faces and the fear of the Lord. How do these go together you might ask? Well, let me tell you why don’t I?! Being raised in a religious household has a way of screwing sex over for most of us. And if you were raised …

We had our engagement shoot April, 2017 which is almost a year ago and I’m yet to share pictures. I know I know, but better late than never right? Especially now that I’m blogging again, what better avenue than clogging up people’s FB pages. So, we were shot by the …

In my first blog post, I think I said something along the lines of how I was “raised” a Jehovah’s Witness. Sure, my Mother raised me in the Jehovah’s Witness faith and I was baptized at the tender age of 13. But it wasn’t just a religion foisted upon me …

…that’s the question sometimes isn’t it? The thing with vulnerability is, there’s always that fear of repercussion. I can definitely tell you that I have an ongoing panic/freakout about how much vulnerability is too much. In my real life, I can be an over-sharer and I generally relish it because …